Male Chastity: A Guide for Keyholders
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Cruel as this practice might sound, I understand it provides a uniquely mind-blowing (not to mention mind-bending) experience for a submissive man. Alternatively, you might keep the key in a place where your man will not be able to access it; perhaps hidden, perhaps locked away by some other means (in a box secured by a padlock, for example). How many myths, legends and folk tales include a hero who is motivated toward self-sacrifice on behalf of the woman he desires, and who thus endures all kinds of difficulties and hardships at her behest?
Denied access to an agreeable female (or if she is temporarily unavailable), most males resort to masturbation and sexual fantasy as a 'safety valve' to release the tension caused by their biological drives.Taking pleasure from a man doesn’t disqualify you from being a Nice Girl; neither does being worshipped and adored. If your man is to play a sport that’s incompatible with the chastity device he normally wears, then you have no option but to remove the device while he does so. In another survey, only one percent of males claimed not to masturbate (and you have to wonder about the reliability of that one percent). A blow to the testicles is bad news for a man at any time, if those testicles are trapped against metal or plastic when they are struck then it will be much, much worse.
The most significant change to the ‘grown-up’ aspects of your relationship will probably be your man’s renewed desire to please you and earn your approval. Your pleasure will become his pleasure as he strives to serve, and to deserve your gift of holding (and eventually using) his key. If the supplier or manufacturer refuses to stand behind their product by providing information on its safe use, then choose an alternative device.With a deeply submissive male (in other words, one who asked you to become his keyholder, or who eagerly agreed when you suggested the idea), it is better to err on the side of infrequency rather than the opposite: periods of frustration are what male chastity is all about. A comment about that being the last he’ll see of his penis for quite a while might be appropriate, as you lock the device.
Male Chastity: the practice of securing a consenting adult male by means of a lockable chastity device such that the chastened male’s sexual release can be achieved only with the keyholder’s involvement and consent.
He will refrain from masturbation, self-stimulation, or any form of erotic activity unless he has your explicit permission.